Skincare Myths That Make Me Cringe (As a Wound Nurse)

Spoiler alert: Coconut oil is not a cure-all.


Let me start by saying—bless everyone trying their best to take care of their skin. Truly. But as a wound and ostomy nurse with 22 years of clinical experience (and a slight addiction to skincare aisles), I’ve heard some myths that make me want to scream into a collagen peptide smoothie.

So today, I’m busting open the bandages and spilling the tea (green, of course) on the skincare myths that make my medically-trained eye twitch.


🔥 Myth #1: “If it burns, it means it’s working.”

As a wound nurse? HARD NO.
Pain is your body’s way of telling you something is wrong—not that your product is super effective. If your skincare burns, it might be doing more harm than good. Red, irritated skin = barrier damage, not #glowgoals.

💡 Nurse Tip: A healthy skin barrier = less inflammation, better healing, and fewer surprise breakouts.


🥥 Myth #2: “Coconut oil fixes everything.”

Yes, it smells like a tropical vacation. No, it should not be your go-to for every skin issue—especially on the face or wounds. Coconut oil is comedogenic, meaning it can clog pores and trap bacteria. Not ideal for healing, acne, or sensitive skin.

I wouldn’t put it on a wound. I’m not putting it on my pores either.


💧 Myth #3: “I don’t need moisturizer if I have oily skin.”

Wrong. Dead wrong.
Your skin might be overproducing oil because it’s dehydrated. Skipping moisturizer can make oiliness worse. Think of moisturizer as hydration, not grease.

💦 Even wounds need the right moisture balance to heal. Your skin’s the same.


🚿 Myth #4: “Hot water opens your pores.”

As someone who spends their days managing skin integrity, let me say this clearly: Pores don’t have doors.
Hot water can irritate and strip your skin, leading to dryness and redness—especially in your 40s when our skin’s natural oils need all the support they can get.

Warm water = kind. Scalding showers = a crime against your collagen.


☀️ Myth #5: “You don’t need sunscreen if it’s cloudy or you’re inside.”

As a nurse who’s seen skin tears, burns, and age-related fragility up close—sun protection is non-negotiable.
UVA rays (aka aging rays) penetrate clouds and glass. Every. Single. Day.

Wearing SPF indoors is like washing your hands after using gloves. You’re covering all your bases.


🧴 Myth #6: “Natural = better.”

Arsenic is natural. So is poison ivy.
Not all “chemical” ingredients are bad, and not all “natural” ones are safe. Let science and your skin’s needs guide you—not fear-based marketing.

As a wound nurse, I trust evidence-based products. Your skin deserves the same.


💊 Myth #7: “You can heal your skin without thinking about your gut.”

Okay, now I’m yelling.
The gut-skin connection is real. Inflammation, nutrient absorption, microbiome imbalance—all of it affects your skin’s health and healing power.

You want clear, calm skin? Start with what you put in your mouth, not just on your face.


👩‍⚕️ Real Talk from a Nurse in Her 40s:

I’ve cleaned wounds on frail skin, helped ostomy patients protect delicate peristomal tissue, and counseled people through rashes, reactions, and breakdowns (emotional and epidermal). Trust me—your skin is smart. Respect its signals, support its barrier, and don’t fall for viral fads.

Also—please stop putting toothpaste on pimples.


✨ Final Thought:

You don’t need 12 steps or snake oil. What you need is science, consistency, and a little nursing wisdom. Skincare is health care—and when you know better, you glow better.

Sunscreen for Nurses: Best Picks for Long Shifts & Real Life

Because our skin deserves more than fluorescent lighting and chart stress.


Let’s be real—most nurses can run on caffeine, half a protein bar, and a prayer. But when it comes to sun protection, we need to do better. Especially if you’re like me—a nurse in her 40s who’s now obsessed with preventing wrinkles, hyperpigmentation, and those rogue forehead freckles that showed up during a parking lot walk from hell.

As a wound and ostomy care nurse, I preach barrier protection all day. So yes, that includes the most underappreciated one: your skin’s barrier against UV radiation.

Let’s talk real-life sunscreen—what works for long shifts, under PPE, on sweaty days, and for skin that still needs to breathe, heal, and GLOW.


☀️ Why Nurses Actually Need Sunscreen at Work

You might be thinking, “I’m inside all day!”

Okay, but hear me out:

  • Windows let in UVA rays – yes, the aging ones.
  • Quick outdoor runs (lunch break, shift change, fire drills) = sneaky UV exposure.
  • Hospital lights + devices emit blue light that contributes to skin aging and pigmentation.

Add that to 12-hour shifts and constant skin barrier stress from sweat, masks, hand sanitizer, and friction—your skin deserves armor.


👩‍⚕️ Nurse-Approved Sunscreen Criteria:

We’re not asking for luxury here. We’re asking for:

  • Non-greasy
  • Fast-absorbing
  • No white cast (we don’t have time to blend)
  • Safe for sensitive skin (wound nurse approved!)
  • Plays nice with makeup or bare faces
  • Doesn’t break you out by hour six

And yes—affordable, because let’s be honest: we still haven’t been reimbursed for that “unpaid lunch break.”


🧴 Top Sunscreen Picks for Nurses Who Don’t Sit Still

1. EltaMD UV Clear SPF 46

⭐️ Dermatologist favorite
✅ Lightweight, great under masks, ideal for acne-prone skin
💊 Packed with niacinamide (hello skin barrier support!)

Perfect for: Anyone dealing with maskne or rosacea flare-ups.


2. La Roche-Posay Anthelios Melt-In Milk SPF 60

☁️ Super smooth, sheer, and hydrating
💪 Holds up during sweaty shifts or power walks
🌿 Gentle enough for sensitive skin

Perfect for: Nurses who hustle in and out of the building.


3. Neutrogena Hydro Boost Water Gel SPF 30

💧 Cooling, water-based formula
💸 Budget-friendly and drugstore accessible
🏃‍♀️ Absorbs fast so you’re not late for huddle

Perfect for: Nurses who need zero-fuss SPF.


4. Colorescience Sunforgettable Brush-On SPF 50

🖌 Powder format—great for mid-shift reapplication
✨ Sets makeup and soaks up sweat
🚑 Can be used over PPE with no mess

Perfect for: ICU/ER folks who can’t reapply lotion during chaos.


5. Black Girl Sunscreen SPF 30

🌈 Inclusive formula with zero white cast
💧 Super moisturizing
🧴 Great for dry, mature, or melanin-rich skin

Perfect for: Everyone who’s been ghosted by mineral sunscreens.


💡 Bonus Tips for Shifts Under Stress & Sweat:

  • Apply before your shift (even if it’s 5:15 AM—your skin clock is watching).
  • Keep a mini SPF in your scrub pocket or locker for mid-day reups.
  • Pair with antioxidant serums like Vitamin C to boost sun protection.
  • Hydrate – because UV exposure + dehydration = dull, tired skin.

🧠 Gut-Skin Connection Alert: UV damage increases skin inflammation. A poor gut microbiome? Makes it worse. Feed your gut and protect your face = double win.


🩺 Real Talk From a Nurse in Her 40s

I’ve seen the effects of UV damage on wound healing, skin tears, and long-term skin integrity. I’ve also seen coworkers skip sunscreen, then wonder where the crepey texture came from (hint: it wasn’t the night shift pizza).

So let this be your reminder: prevention is everything. One less wrinkle, one less sunspot, one more glow-up.


☀️ Final Thought:

You spend your days caring for everyone else. Your skin? It’s part of your story—and it deserves care too. So before you dive into another long shift, do the 30-second thing that future you will thank you for.

🧱 Beyond the Face: Nurse-Approved Skin Barrier Tips (and the Gut Connection You’re Probably Ignoring)

Spoiler: it’s not just your face that deserves love.


Skin barrier health goes way beyond your face. Learn how gut health impacts barrier function, and why your underboob, sacrum, and elbows deserve just as much love. Nurse-approved skincare tips that blend clinical credibility and gut-skin truth.


Let’s Be Honest: When’s the Last Time You Moisturized Your Elbows?

Or showed your underboob skin some barrier cream love? Or gave your belly folds a legit spa moment?

Exactly.

As a wound care nurse in her fabulous 40s—with a passion for poop and peptides—I’m here to tell you: 👉 Your skin barrier is not just a cute TikTok trend. It’s real. It’s vital. And it goes far beyond your face.

So let’s chat about the forgotten skin, barrier basics, gut health, and why ceramides should absolutely be your new BFF.


🧱 What Is the Skin Barrier, and Why Should You Care?

Think of your skin barrier like a brick wall:

  • 🧱 Skin cells = the bricks
  • 🧈 Lipids (fats) = the mortar holding it together

When that barrier is healthy, it keeps moisture in and irritants out. But when it’s damaged—through overwashing, harsh products, friction (hello, PPE life), or inflammation—it’s like a wall with missing bricks.

Cue: dryness, burning, cracking, rashes, mystery flaking at the worst times.

🩺 Nurse Note:

I see broken skin barriers every single day—from sacral wounds and underboob irritation to overzealous retinol regrets. The good news? It’s fixable. With the right plan.


🧴 Ceramides: The Unsung Heroes of Skin Health

Ceramides are natural fats that make up about 50% of your stratum corneum (your outermost skin layer). Translation: they’re a big deal.

Low ceramide levels = dry, irritated, inflamed skin.

Ceramides help:

  • Lock in moisture
  • Strengthen the skin barrier
  • Protect against bacteria and toxins
  • Reduce inflammation

And no—it’s not just your face that needs them.

Apply ceramide-rich creams to:

  • Hands (after 437 hand washes)
  • Inner thighs (chafing is real 😊)
  • Under breasts (sweat + yeast = no thanks)
  • Sacrum and buttocks (especially if sedentary)
  • Belly folds or other friction-prone areas

💡 Forgotten Skin Zones That Deserve Barrier Cream

If you’ve ever:

  • Treated MASD (moisture-associated skin damage)
  • Fought a diaper rash stronger than a toddler’s will
  • Dealt with heat rash under a belly fold after a shift in scrubs…

…then you know.

MVP barrier ingredients:

  • Zinc oxide: anti-inflammatory, creates a physical barrier
  • Dimethicone: smooths and protects skin
  • Petrolatum: locks in moisture (yes, super cheap)

Pair barrier creams with ceramides for next-level results.


🔬 The Gut-Skin Connection: What’s Inside Shows Up Outside

Recent research continues to show what nurses (and grandmas) have known for years: When your gut’s unhappy, your skin acts out.

According to a 2023 review in Frontiers in Microbiology:

  • Dysbiosis (imbalanced gut flora) has been linked to acne, eczema, psoriasis, and delayed wound healing.
  • A healthy gut can increase ceramide production in the skin and improve barrier function.

Signs your gut may be affecting your skin:

  • Unexplained dryness or flaking
  • Red, irritated patches (even in odd places)
  • Slow healing after minor injuries
  • Recurring rashes, especially with stress or diet changes

Key gut-skin supporters:

  • Probiotics & prebiotics: balance gut flora
  • Omega-3s: reduce inflammation
  • Zinc & vitamin A: aid in skin repair
  • Fiber: feeds the good bacteria

👩‍⚕️ Personal Story: From Cracked Skin to Ceramide Queen

After one particularly chaotic week (back-to-back shifts, minimal water, lots of stress, zero vegetables), I noticed the skin under my sports bra looked like it had lost a fight with sandpaper.

I swapped in a ceramide-heavy moisturizer and a barrier cream with zinc oxide. I also upped my probiotic, chugged more water than usual, and added fermented foods.

Within days, the irritation calmed, and within a week? Back to baseline—no redness, no stinging.

Moral of the story? Inside-out care works.


🧖‍♀️ Nurse-Approved Barrier Boost Routine

💪 For Skin:

  • Post-shower: Ceramide-rich lotion on damp skin
  • Hot spots: Barrier cream on folds, thighs, sacrum, under breasts
  • Hands: Reapply barrier balm every 8–10 washes

🥗 For Gut:

  • Stay hydrated (aim for 60–80 oz daily)
  • Eat collagen-rich foods: bone broth, berries, leafy greens
  • Avoid ultra-processed foods
  • Take a daily probiotic and include fermented foods

🧡 Final Takeaway: Your Skin Doesn’t Stop at Your Jawline

You don’t need 18 serums or a spa weekend to build a healthy skin barrier. You need:

  • Consistency
  • Ceramides + barrier creams
  • Gut support
  • A little humor (yes, it’s healthy) 😊 and a lot of hydration

Next time you slather your face with serum, remember: Your gut, your underboob, and your belly folds deserve love too.

Glow biologically—and don’t forget to moisturize your elbows. 😉

⚠️ Disclaimer (Because I’m a Nurse, Not Your Nurse 😉)

This blog is for general educational and entertainment purposes. It doesn’t replace personalized medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider, especially if you’re treating wounds, rashes, or skin conditions.

Constipation Crisis: Why Nurses Don’t Poop Like They Used To 💩🚽

A gut-check from a wound & ostomy nurse who knows the struggle is real (and real slow)

Let’s talk about something near, dear, and backed up—our bowels.
If you’re a nurse (or anyone in healthcare), you already know: Nurses don’t poop like they used to. Somewhere between the 12-hour shifts, too much caffeine, too little hydration, and holding our bladder until it feels like a personal achievement… our guts have thrown in the towel.

As a nurse, (most of them spent talking about poop more than most people talk about the weather), I’ve seen it all. From chronic constipation to stress diarrhea, to the poor soul who swore she hadn’t pooped since the last full moon—gut health is no joke. And it’s way more connected to our skin, mood, energy, and wound healing than most people realize.

So today, I’m diving deep into the constipation crisis, nurse edition.


🚫 Why Nurses Are the Constipation Poster Children

Let’s break it down, shall we?

1. We Never Sit Still (Except on the Toilet, Praying for a Movement)

On our feet all day, running from room to room, charting while standing… we burn calories but somehow forget to drink water or even breathe properly. Hydration? Fiber? Regular meals? LOL.

2. Caffeine Is Our Blood Type

Coffee to wake up. More coffee to stay awake. Maybe an energy drink for the night shift. That much caffeine can dehydrate you AND slow digestion, even though it’s technically a stimulant. Betrayal.

3. We Ignore Our Bodies

Feel the urge to poop at 9 a.m.? Sorry, you’re in wound care rounds until noon. By the time you’re free, your colon has emotionally shut down and decided to store that stool indefinitely.

4. Shift Work & Stress = Gut Confusion

Your body loves a rhythm. Your schedule? Absolute chaos. Add stress, skipped meals, no sleep, and your microbiome starts googling “How to apply for early retirement.”


💩 Constipation Isn’t Just Inconvenient—It’s a Skin + Gut Issue

This is where my love of gut health and skin care nerdiness collide. Constipation isn’t just a plumbing problem—it impacts:

  • Detoxification: If you’re not pooping, you’re reabsorbing toxins meant to exit. That can show up as acne, dull skin, breakouts, and more.
  • Inflammation: Sluggish bowels can increase systemic inflammation, which slows down wound healing and messes with your skin barrier.
  • Hormone Balance: Estrogen is excreted via the gut. If you’re not going, hormones recirculate. Hello, mood swings and breakouts.
  • Mood + Energy: Your gut helps make neurotransmitters. A backed-up colon can lead to foggy thinking, fatigue, and straight-up irritability.

👩‍⚕️ Nurse Truth: If you’re constipated and cranky, it’s probably connected.


🚽 What Can You Actually Do (That Doesn’t Involve Quitting Your Job)?

Yes, we’re busy. But your gut deserves more than a once-a-week courtesy flush. Here’s what I suggest:

Hydrate Like It’s Your Side Hustle

Keep a giant water bottle at your station. Chug during charting. Add electrolytes if plain water bores you.

Fiber Up—But Gently

Start with chia seeds, flaxseed, oats, or berries. Don’t go from 5g to 30g in one day, unless you enjoy bloating and regret.

Magnesium Is Magic

Magnesium citrate or glycinate helps move things along and eases muscle tension (which we ALL need). Just start low and go slow.

Move It, Even Just a Bit

Desk job? Stretch. Walk the hallway. Do squats in the breakroom (bonus: coworkers think you’re fitness goals).

Poop Routine = Gut Gold

Try to poop at the same time each day. Sit. Breathe. Do not scroll. Your colon deserves your full attention.

Probiotics + Prebiotics

Balance your gut flora with fermented foods (yogurt, kimchi, kefir) and prebiotic-rich foods (onions, garlic, bananas).


🧻 Final Flush: Nurses Deserve Smooth Moves, Too

Let’s not normalize constipation. Let’s normalize talking about it—and doing something about it. Because regular poops aren’t just about comfort. They’re about whole-body health—from your skin to your stress level to how well that surgical site heals.

So here’s to fiber, hydration, and pooping like a nurse who finally remembered she has a digestive system.


Need help getting your gut back on track?
Stick around. I share real talk, skin tips, gut-loving recipes, and more—straight from a nurse who’s seen the (bowel) light.

💩 Because constipation may be common, but that doesn’t mean it’s normal.


🍽️✨Eat This, Not That—for Happier Bowels and Better Skin 🌿💩💖

Because what you eat shows up in your poop AND your pores.

If you’re in your 40s like me, and you’ve ever said, “Wow, I didn’t used to bloat like this after a salad,” or “Why is my skin freaking out like I’m 16 again?”—welcome, friend. Let’s talk about the not-so-secret secret behind it all: your gut.

As a nurse with 22 years of experience (and way too many conversations about poop before lunch), I’ve seen firsthand how what you eat affects how you go—and how you glow. The connection between your gut and your skin is as real as that one coworker who always microwaves fish in the breakroom.

So today we’re diving into my favorite kind of list:
Eat this, not that—for happier bowels and better skin.
Because good skin starts in the gut, and so does not hating your bathroom time.


🍞 Bread Edition: Whole > White

Eat This: Sprouted grain bread or whole wheat
Not That: White bread, croissants, or anything with “enriched” flour

White bread is basically cardboard for your gut. It spikes your blood sugar, feeds the bad bacteria, and leaves you hungry in 20 minutes. Whole grains? They’re fiber-packed, feed your good gut bugs, and help you poop like a champion.

💩 Gut bonus: Fiber = movement = less constipation = less toxin reabsorption = clearer skin.


🧃 Drink Edition: Water > Juice

Drink This: Water (with lemon, cucumber, or even chia seeds)
Not That: Sugary juices, soda, or “detox teas” that are just glorified laxatives

Juice may look healthy, but your gut and skin know better. It’s a sugar bomb in disguise. Water keeps everything hydrated—from your colon to your collagen.

💦 Pro tip: Dehydration is the fastest way to look tired and get constipated.


🍟 Snack Edition: Avocados > Chips

Eat This: Avocado toast, guac with veggie sticks, or even just a spoonful
Not That: Potato chips, pretzels, or “low-fat” snack packs

Avocados are loaded with healthy fats that keep your skin plump and your gut lining happy. Chips? Mostly salt and empty carbs. Sorry, not sorry.

🥑 Bonus: Avocados contain fiber + vitamin E, a double win for your glow.


🍫 Treat Edition: Dark Chocolate > Candy Bars

Eat This: 70%+ dark chocolate
Not That: Milk chocolate candy bars with sugar as the first ingredient

Dark chocolate (in moderation, of course) has polyphenols—plant compounds that love your gut and fight inflammation. Candy bars? Just a sugar party for acne-causing bacteria.

🍫 Nurse wisdom: Eat the chocolate. Just make it dark and mysterious, like your favorite medical drama.


🍗 Protein Edition: Salmon > Processed Meats

Eat This: Wild salmon, sardines, eggs, beans
Not That: Deli meats, bacon, hot dogs

Omega-3s in salmon are great for calming skin inflammation and soothing the gut. Processed meats? They’re full of preservatives and inflammatory fats that make your gut and face very unhappy.

🧠 Gut-skin note: Omega-3s support mood, too. So you’ll look good and stop yelling at your houseplants.


🥤 Gut Helper Edition: Fermented Foods > “Probiotic” Gimmicks

Eat This: Yogurt, kefir, kimchi, sauerkraut, miso
Not That: Sugary probiotic drinks with cartoon labels

Fermented foods bring real, living bacteria to your gut party. Fake probiotic products are like inviting a clown to a medical conference. Not helpful.

🧬 A healthy microbiome = better digestion, better immunity, fewer breakouts. Win-win-win.


🚫 Avoid the “Low-Fat” Lies

Let me be clear: your skin and gut need fat. Healthy fats. Not the “low-fat” processed stuff that spiked in popularity in the 90s (and ruined all our hormones). Your skin barrier and your gut lining are made of lipids. Give them what they need.


👩‍⚕️ Final Thoughts from Your Friendly Nurse Blogger

What you eat either feeds the inflammation or fights it. It either supports your gut-skin connection—or sabotages it one soda at a time.

You don’t need a perfect diet. Just a realistic, whole-food, gut-happy plan that works with your life (and your shift schedule). If your poop is regular, your skin is glowing, and you’ve got energy to spare—you’re on the right track.

And if not? Just remember, you can turn things around one avocado at a time.


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Skincare in Your 40s: A Nurse’s Guide to Glowing Skin and a Happy Gut ✨🧴

Discover a nurse-approved skincare routine for your 40s that heals below the surface. Learn how the gut-skin connection, hydration, and real ingredients can help you glow—inside and out.


Welcome to your 40s—where your smile lines say, “I’ve lived,” and your forehead creases whisper, “I’ve worried (a lot).”

👉 Skincare in your 40s is a whole different ball game.

The good news? It doesn’t have to be complicated—or cost as much as your first car.

Let’s break it down nurse-style: science-backed tips and a gut-skin wellness twist that your face (and your microbiome) will love.


🧼 Step 1: Cleanse Like You Mean It (Without Stripping Your Barrier)

Forget those 15-step influencer routines. In your 40s, it’s time to get serious about protecting your skin’s barrier.
Your oil production has slowed, your skin is thinner, and your wound-healing abilities aren’t what they used to be. That’s why your cleanser matters—a lot.

Look for:

  • pH-balanced formulas
  • Creamy, non-foaming textures
  • Ingredients like glycerin, oat extract, or aloe

If it sounds like something you’d feel safe using near a surgical site, you’re on the right track.

🧠 Bonus tip: Your skin microbiome needs TLC too. A stripped barrier can mess with both your skin and gut health—yes, they’re connected!

🔗 Related read: How a Healthy Gut Can Transform Your Skin and Hair Naturally


🍊 Step 2: Brighten + Protect with Vitamin C

Vitamin C is your daytime BFF. In your 40s, environmental stress starts to leave its mark—pollution, UV exposure, and (ahem) years of cortisol spikes from shift work and parenting.

💥 Enter: L-ascorbic acid (aka the most effective form of Vitamin C).

It:

  • Boosts collagen
  • Brightens dark spots
  • Protects against free radicals
  • Pairs perfectly under sunscreen

✅ Choose a serum with 10–20% concentration, and apply before your moisturizer in the morning.

🌿 If you’re sensitive, try magnesium ascorbyl phosphate instead. It’s gentler on skin that’s been through the trenches.


🌞 Step 3: SPF = Aging Insurance

Look, I love a good anti-aging cream—but sunscreen still reigns supreme. It’s your #1 defense against wrinkles, dark spots, and skin cancer. And yes, even when it’s cloudy. Even if you’re just going to Target.

🔬 As a nurse, I’ve seen firsthand what lack of SPF does to healing and collagen. Trust me—you want to keep that skin protected and supported.

🧴 Use a broad-spectrum SPF 30 or higher, preferably mineral-based if you’re sensitive.

💡 Pro tip: Reapply every 2 hours if you’re outside, even if you’re just sipping iced coffee and reading skin blogs (like this one 😉).

🔗 Related: Sunscreen for Dads Who Think They’re Invincible


💧 Step 4: Hydrate Like It’s Your Job (Because It Kinda Is)

Hydration = glow + gut support + smoother skin

Aging skin tends to be drier, thinner, and more prone to transepidermal water loss. Add in night shifts, coffee habits, or not enough water (you know who you are), and your skin is begging for hydration.

What your 40s skin craves:

  • Hyaluronic acid (draws water in)
  • Ceramides (seals the deal)
  • Peptides (tells your skin to keep repairing)

🥤 And yes, drink that water! Your gut bacteria thrive in hydrated environments—and when your gut is happy, your skin usually glows in gratitude.


🥦 Step 5: Feed Your Face (From the Inside Out)

Want clear, vibrant, bounce-back skin in your 40s? Your gut microbiome needs to be part of your beauty regimen.

What to eat for better skin:

  • 🐟 Omega-3s: Fatty fish, chia seeds
  • 🥬 Leafy greens: Anti-inflammatory + antioxidant-rich
  • 🥣 Bone broth: Collagen and gut-healing amino acids
  • 🥛 Fermented foods: Yogurt, kefir, kimchi = happy gut flora
  • 🧄 Prebiotics: Garlic, onions, bananas (fuel for good bacteria)

🦠 The gut-skin axis is real: poor digestion, leaky gut, or dysbiosis can all show up as acne, rosacea, dullness, or inflammation.

🔗 Related: The Surprising Link Between Rosacea and Your Gut Microbiome


💊 Step 6: Use Smart Actives (One at a Time, Please)

In your 40s, you’ve earned the right to target your skincare concerns—but don’t overdo it. More isn’t better. It’s just… inflamed.

Choose actives based on your needs:

  • Retinol or retinaldehyde: For fine lines, collagen loss
  • Peptides: For firmness and repair
  • Niacinamide: For redness, barrier support, and pigment
  • Glycolic or lactic acid: For texture and tone

👩‍⚕️ Nurse tip: Introduce one active at a time. Start 2x per week, then work up. If your skin feels tight, dry, or angry—it’s time to back off.


🛏 Step 7: Sleep + Stress = Skin Care (Seriously)

Let’s talk cortisol. When stress hormones spike:

  • Collagen breaks down faster
  • Skin becomes more reactive
  • Inflammation increases
  • Digestion slows = gut chaos = skin chaos

😴 Aim for 7–9 hours of sleep.
🧘‍♀️ Add daily decompression rituals: deep breathing, journaling, light stretching, or just watching trash TV without guilt.

🔗 Need help resetting your gut? Check out Anti-Aging from the Gut: https://gutglow.blog/2025/06/14/anti-aging-from-the-gut-what-to-eat-to-reduce-wrinkles-and-hair-loss-naturally-%f0%9f%8c%bf%e2%9c%a8/What to Eat to Reduce Wrinkles and Hair Loss Naturally 


👩‍⚕️ Final Thoughts from Your Favorite Nurse

Aging is a privilege—and so is caring for your skin with intention. You don’t need fancy tools or a drawer full of serums. You just need to:
💛 Understand your body
💧 Feed your gut
🌿 Support your barrier
😴 Sleep more
☀️ Wear SPF
🧠 And trust the process

In your 40s, your skin can still glow—it just needs a little more love and a lot more support.

So hydrate, exfoliate, meditate—and celebrate that beautiful face of yours.

Now go glow, beautifully and biologically. ✨🧠💪

💩 What Your Poop Is Telling You (And When to Worry)

From a Nurse Who Talks About Poop Like It’s Her Job—Because It Is

Let’s normalize something real quick: talking about poop.
Because as a nurse with 22 years in the game—and plenty of time spent in wound and ostomy care—let me tell you, poop is one of the most honest health reporters you’ll ever meet. Forget the fancy wearables and wellness apps; your stool is the original body feedback system. It tells you everything from hydration status to digestion drama to whether or not your kombucha obsession is paying off.

So yes, today we’re going there. I’m in my 40s, and I’ve had more conversations about poop than most people have had about their careers—and I’m proud of it. Let’s break down what your daily (or not-so-daily) deposit is saying about your overall health, and when it’s time to raise an eyebrow… or call your doc.


💩 First, What Is “Normal” Poop?

Welcome to the Bristol Stool Chart—every nurse’s favorite dinner topic. It classifies poop into 7 types:

  • Type 1: Hard pellets (aka rabbit poop). Hello, constipation.
  • Type 2: Lumpy sausage. Still constipated, but working on it.
  • Type 3 & 4: Smooth sausage or soft log. 🎯 Gold standard of poop.
  • Type 5: Soft blobs with clear edges. Okay, maybe had too much fiber.
  • Type 6 & 7: Mushy or watery. Now we’re in diarrhea territory.

Ideal poop? Type 3 or 4. Smooth, soft, easy to pass, and about the length of a banana. Bonus points if you barely need toilet paper. 🧻


🧠 What Poop Can Tell You About Your Health

1. Color Commentary

  • Brown = Gold star! That’s bilirubin doing its job.
  • Green = Fast transit time or too much kale. Not usually a crisis.
  • Yellow = Fat malabsorption (watch for floating, greasy stools).
  • Black or red = 🚨 Call your provider. Could indicate bleeding.
  • Pale, clay-colored = Possible bile duct issue. Check in with your doc.

👩‍⚕️ Nurse tip: If your stool looks like a Halloween decoration or smells like a dead raccoon in the sun, it’s worth checking out.


2. Consistency Is Key

If you’re pooping rabbit pellets on Monday and have a butt volcano by Wednesday, something’s off. Stress, hydration, hormones, food intolerances, antibiotics—all of these affect your gut rhythm.

  • Constipation: Drink more water, move more, up your fiber. Magnesium citrate is my go-to sidekick.
  • Diarrhea: Rule out infection, food triggers, or gut imbalances. Too many sugar-free gums can cause chaos too—yes, I’m looking at you, xylitol.

3. Odor Clues (Yes, the Smell Matters)

All poop stinks—but sudden, knock-you-out foulness could mean:

  • Poor digestion
  • Infection (think C. diff)
  • Food intolerance (hello, lactose!)
  • Malabsorption (especially if it’s oily or sticky)

Don’t ignore new stink levels that linger. Your poop should not require a hazmat evacuation plan.


🚽 When to Worry (A Nurse’s Real Talk)

Here’s when poop deserves more than a passing thought:

  • Blood (bright or dark)
  • Ongoing diarrhea or constipation (more than a few days)
  • Severe abdominal pain
  • Weight loss without trying
  • Floating, greasy stools (every time)
  • Changes in color or consistency that last over a week

If your gut’s been acting like a moody teenager for more than a week, it’s time to bring in a professional.


🥬 How to Make Your Poop… Well, Poop Better

Healthy poop starts with gut-friendly habits. Here’s what I recommend (and practice myself):

  • Fiber daily: Aim for 25–35g. Veggies, fruits, oats, chia seeds.
  • Hydrate like a boss: Water helps everything move.
  • Move your body: Exercise = better motility.
  • Probiotics: Yogurt, kefir, sauerkraut—or a good supplement.
  • Prebiotics: Feed the good bugs with garlic, onions, asparagus, etc.
  • Watch your stress: Cortisol and your colon are NOT friends.

💬 Final Flush

You don’t need to be obsessed with your poop—but you should be checking in with it. Your stool is basically your gut’s way of texting you, and ignoring it is like leaving your doctor on read.

So the next time you drop a deuce, take a peek. Is it shaped like a banana? Does it flush with pride? Great. If not—your body might be nudging you to make a few gut-friendly tweaks.

And hey, if you’ve got an ostomy, your output tells a story too! (But that’s another post—coming soon.)

Here’s to healthy guts, glowing skin, and poop that makes you proud. 💩✨


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✨ Eat for Glow – Gut-Friendly Recipes & Nutrition Tips

Let’s be honest—aging is a gift, but also sometimes a weird science experiment. One day you’re bouncing back from Taco Bell at 2 a.m., the next you’re bloated from a banana. As a nurse in my 40s (with 22 years of experience and lots of wound and ostomy stories I won’t share here—you’re welcome), I’ve learned that what we eat shows up everywhere: in our skin, our energy, our digestion, and yes, even our mood.

So if you’re ready to eat for glow—not just skin-deep, but gut-deep—grab your fork and let’s get glowing.


💡 Why Gut-Friendly Eating = Glowing From the Inside Out

Your gut is basically your body’s VIP lounge—only the best microbes get bottle service. When your digestive system is happy, you absorb nutrients better, reduce inflammation, and eliminate waste like a well-oiled machine. And when that happens?
✔️ Skin clears
✔️ Energy climbs
✔️ Mood lifts
✔️ Poop becomes… dare I say… predictable

As a certified wound and ostomy care nurse, I can tell you that gut health and skin healing go hand in hand. What’s going on inside will eventually show up outside—so let’s feed the body what it actually wants.


🥑 Glowing Gut Nutrition Tips (Nurse-Approved)

🥗 1. Eat the Rainbow (No, Not Skittles)

Colorful fruits and veggies = a variety of antioxidants, phytonutrients, and fiber. Think berries, leafy greens, carrots, beets, and purple cabbage. Basically, if your plate looks like a Lisa Frank folder, you’re winning.

🥣 2. Get Fermented with It

Fermented foods bring beneficial bacteria to the party—great for digestion and for keeping things balanced. Add:

  • Sauerkraut to salads
  • Greek yogurt to smoothies
  • Kimchi to rice bowls
  • Miso to soups
  • Kefir as a creamy base

Pro tip: Introduce these slowly unless you enjoy sudden digestive plot twists.

🥕 3. Feed Your Flora with Fiber

Prebiotics (fiber that feeds your good gut bacteria) are your microbiome’s favorite snack. Think:

  • Oats
  • Onions & garlic
  • Apples
  • Artichokes
  • Bananas (greener ones are best for resistant starch)

💦 4. Hydrate Like You Mean It

Water helps move things along—bowel-wise and skin-wise. Aim for half your body weight in ounces, and yes, coffee counts a little. Just not a lot.

🧘 5. Don’t Forget to Chill

Stress = gut disruption = skin freak-outs. Breathing, laughing, journaling, even a dance break between patient charts—whatever keeps your cortisol from going full Godzilla.


🍽️ Simple Gut-Glowing Recipes

🥣 1. Overnight Glow Oats

Ingredients:

  • ½ cup rolled oats
  • ¾ cup kefir or almond milk
  • 1 tbsp chia seeds
  • ½ banana (sliced)
  • Berries, cinnamon, and a drizzle of honey

Why it works:
Fiber, prebiotics, probiotics, and antioxidants. Plus, it takes 2 minutes to prep, which is perfect for when your morning starts with coffee and chaos.


🥗 2. Gut-Lovin’ Salad Bowl

Ingredients:

  • Mixed greens
  • Shredded carrots
  • Beets
  • Quinoa
  • Roasted chickpeas
  • Sauerkraut or kimchi
  • Olive oil + apple cider vinegar dressing

Why it works:
Fiber + fermented crunch = a microbiome-friendly masterpiece.


🍵 3. Glowy Gut Soup (aka Nurse’s Gut Reset)

Ingredients:

  • Bone broth or veggie broth
  • Chopped garlic, onions, ginger
  • Spinach or kale
  • Shredded carrots
  • Miso paste (add at the end)
  • Optional: tofu or shredded chicken

Why it works:
Healing, hydrating, and full of prebiotic + probiotic power.


🚽 Bonus Tips for That Glow-From-The-Toilet Feeling

Because let’s be real, good gut health isn’t glamorous unless it shows up in the bathroom. Some extra tricks:

  • Magnesium citrate for gentle regularity
  • L-glutamine for gut lining support
  • Peppermint tea post-meal to soothe and de-bloat
  • No multitasking while eating—your gut isn’t great at divided attention either

👩‍⚕️ Final Thoughts from the Nurse Who’s Seen It All (and Then Some)

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from the bedside to the breakroom, it’s this: healing starts in the gut. Whether it’s skin, energy, immunity, or your mood that’s feeling off, start with your fork. You don’t need a detox, a juice cleanse, or some influencer’s overpriced powder. You just need real food, real fiber, and real rest.


🦠 Gut Guide: Nurse-Approved Tips for Digestive Health, Microbiome Balance & Wellness Hacks🦠


Boost your gut health with nurse-approved tips! Learn microbiome secrets, digestive hacks, and wellness routines for better skin, energy & mood.


Let’s talk about guts—yours, mine, and the trillions of tiny tenants renting space in our intestines. As a nurse with 22+ years of experience, I’ve seen firsthand how gut health affects everything from immunity to mood, energy, and even your skin glow. Your gut is smarter than most people on social media, so let’s give it the attention it deserves!

Meet Your Microbiome – Your Inner Roommates 🧬
Your gut microbiome is like a bustling city of bacteria, fungi, and other microbes. Friendly neighbors help digest food and support your immune system; the unruly ones… not so much. Balance is key.

Signs Your Gut Needs Attention:

  • Bloating
  • Fatigue
  • Brain fog
  • Skin breakouts
  • Mood swings

Top Nurse-Approved Tips for Better Gut Health 🧻

1. Fiber Is Your Friend 🥦
Feeds beneficial bacteria and keeps digestion moving. Eat oats, lentils, apples, chia seeds, and leafy greens.

2. Fermented Foods = Fantastic 🥒
Yogurt, kefir, kimchi, sauerkraut, miso support probiotic balance and gut healing.

3. Quit Feeding the Gremlins 🚫
Avoid excess sugar, ultra-processed foods, and artificial sweeteners to keep harmful bacteria in check.

4. Hydrate Like It’s Your Job 💧
Water aids digestion, supports gut lining, and prevents mistaking thirst for hunger.

5. Chill, Please 🧘
Stress disrupts digestion and microbiome balance. Try deep breathing, walks, or even scream-singing in the car.

Wellness Hacks from a Wound Nurse with a Gut Feeling 🩹

  • Apple cider vinegar before meals (diluted)
  • Digestive bitters to stimulate enzymes
  • Mindful eating: chew your food
  • Magnesium citrate for motility
  • Journal your gut to track foods and symptoms

Your Gut-Healthy Daily Routine 🧘‍♀️
Morning: Warm water with lemon or ACV, high-fiber breakfast, probiotic supplement
Midday: Colorful whole-food lunch, water, 10-min walk/stretch
Evening: Lighter dinner, herbal tea, phone down & feet up


Your gut affects everything—digestion, immunity, mood, cravings, and even your skin. Feed it right, move it daily, and listen to its cues. Share your gut-health wins in the comments or subscribe for more nurse-approved tips!

⚠️ Disclaimer (Because I’m a Nurse, Not Your Nurse 😉): This blog is for general education and entertainment purposes only.

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Bloating and Breakouts: Understanding Your Gut-Skin Connection

Let’s talk about bloating, because nothing says “glow-killer” like feeling (and looking) like a human balloon. But here’s where it gets even juicier: that gut unrest? It’s probably showing up on your face too.

When your digestive system is inflamed, overfed with sugar, or under-supported by fiber and water, it doesn’t just lead to gas—it can disrupt your microbiome. That imbalance can trigger skin inflammation, redness, and those “wait, I’m not 16 anymore??” breakouts.

And yes, your gut and skin talk behind your back through your immune system and hormones. Rude.

So if you’re bloated, cranky, and breaking out?
➡️ It’s probably not just the burrito.
➡️ But don’t stress. Unless you want stress acne too. (Kidding. Sort of.)

🥬 Try fiber, probiotics, water, and a little self-compassion. Your gut (and jawline) will thank you.